Tuesday, May 26, 2009
today's special
haha, today is wj's 23rd bdae, yup, i'm going to treat him to dinner.. but where?? somewhere that is affordable (still sore abt my throwing $$ into the deep sea!) hmmm, mayb later we go check out the place then see how... oh yea, there's this jap place at tm1, but i can foresee that it will be super crowded (wooh, i can see the future...wahahhaha)
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Hello, I read all your posts and just wanted to say a few things :)
ReplyDeleteI notice that you're worried about the differences b/w you and wj. Honestly, I worry about the differences b/w me and my boyfriend sometimes too. Like you two, we are also quite different and I worry whether we'll be able to last when we're so different...
But I think there's nothing much to worry about. :)
I enjoy exploring the differences between us. I admire in him the qualities I will never possess. The way he is so certain in his capabilities, he's so practical and down to earth, totally unlike me who like doubts everything that can be doubted! haha! He is always the one who pulls me back down to earth when I get carried away. It's good that he's different, so he doesn't get caught up in my crap and regulates me as needed. ^^ Vice versa, he also admires the qualities in me he doesn't have and I think we complement each other. :)
Don't worry about being similar to your partner, no one wants to marry people who are basically, well...themselves. (that's just narcissistic)
I also think that a relationship with 2 very different people is one with much more mutual understanding and compromise than one with 2 very similar people.
My bf and I are almost completely different, even the food we eat. He loves meat, whereas I dislike meat and loves sweet stuff. I think it's wonderful :) because I know that when he buys a cake, it's specially for me. When I make a meat dish, he knows it's specially for him. Isn't that especially sweet? ^^
Admire your differences and enjoy the little compromises you all make for each other. :)
Cheers!
hi shufen, if u're reading my blog then prob means wj told u abt it...
ReplyDeleteyup, the points u raised are reasonable, but as being a girl, u cant help but feel a tad insecure when ur guy gets chummy with another girl..call it human nature? haha..
anyways, i've kinda attained some sort of peace abt it, i'm now more ruffled by another issue abt my mum, which i'm guessing wj prob mentioned to u or u can read from my very first post.
hey, I understand the insecure part :) Don't worry it's normal. Just don't worry so much about the differences part. ^^
ReplyDeleteabout the problem with your mum...all I can say is jia you! :)
haha, thanks! i would say its abt time to face my mum abt things...again...
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