yepz, my other half is 90% different from me, the only things in common are food, nature and probably basketball.... and thats where the similarity ends...
its pretty sad, because whenever i get hooked to dramas and chinese movies and wish to share something with him, he's not interested in watching it with me... there's no one to share this passion with.. now that i'm still staying with my parents, at least there's my mum i can tok to cos she also gets hooked on them...
however when i'm married, things will become somewhat lonely... haiz oh well wat to do... to love someone who's far from the ideal guy... perhaps i have to endure this loneliness and just get involved in my own passions... i shd be more independent and self satisfied, dun expect too much, for more expectations, come more disappointments..
i guess i can be considered somewhat lucky, some ppl may find their other halves who are so TOTALLY different from one another, and end up totally sad in their marriage, one example would be my parents...
anyways, yea, in my opinion, i still think that if your other half is at least 50% similar in your interests, your relationship would be much better off :)
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i dunno how to say this, but i'm pretty upset with him for disturbing my tv viewing, especially when he grunts and makes noise because he tries to sleep and couldn... and i do not actually like him lying on my lap while i watch tv simply because i wanna sit relaxedly and be able to flex myself every now and then, with him there lying i couldn possibly move ard...
ReplyDeletealso, he says i'm rigid because i brand those dramas as "don't like them" when i watch them, but wat i think is that, at least when i'm nt interested i can still watch it, and even change my mind abt disliking it.... on the one hand, i tink he's the rigid one. he says he keeps an open mind, but once he dislikes he will shut it off... does he give more chances?? i would say no.... so.... who's the more rigid one then?
ah anyways just venting my thoughts here, its better if i just type down here then say it out to him.... dun care if he ever reads it or not...
wow! Well, I guess no two people can ever be alike. Hope you find more things in common! ;) Phoebe
ReplyDeleteyupz, i didn expect wj to be totally like me, but we definitely do not have much things in common, which to me is pretty sad... but i guess we're together for so long, it really shouldn matter, by right.... but by left (haha), i do feel disappointed with him sometimes...
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