i read from somewhere tat unhappiness came about from trying to pursue happiness... interesting... the more u wan it, the more elusive it gets... not sure if i agree totally with it... ha! but it seems true for me... the more i wan to b happy in my job, the more i expect from it, and the greater the disappointment... so somehow the equation became like this
wanting happiness = higher expectation of myself = higher disappointment = unhappiness
so it would seem that not wanting to be happy in my work will then translate into lower expectation of myself, then equivalent to being happy.. now this sounds pretty depressive. but then, there is also something that attracts me to being mediocre. it means fading into the background and being content with wat u have, not needing to fight with anyone for anything, not needing anyone's recognition in order to live a smooth life... mediocre seems like a negative connotation, but...for me, it could be the best advice to live a care-free life :)
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